What does an F-14 Tomcat aviator have to say to your high school student?
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Follow your dream, it's worth it.
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Make academics #1 priority.
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Learn to manage your time-schedule.
Here's a link to a YouTube broadcast from Commander Ward Carroll (USN, Ret.).
Before you click to watch, finish reading this. Make sure you notice the following facts about Commander Carroll's experiences.
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His dream was the Naval Academy. However, because he did not give his maximum best effort in high school, he was forced to spend a year at a prep school in order to earn admission to Annapolis. That was expensive in dollars, and in time an entire year of his life.
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At the Naval Academy his dream became F-14 Tomcat officer specifically he chose RIO (Radar Intercept Officer; second seat) due to a substandard eye test.
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Once again, by not making academics his #1 priority at USNA, he had to detour for another year in order to qualify for the assignment.
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A highly significant skill he acquired, however, and by his own testimony in the video, is the skill of time management. Commander Carroll remarks that the USNA intentionally overloads your schedule. You cannot do everything with equal attention. Therefore, you learn to prioritize and focus on "first things first." He states emphatically, that skill is invaluable in a combat aircraft. It will save your life!
Here's the reason I write this blog, and share Commander Carroll's wisdom. The greatest challenge I have in coaching teenagers to achieve their goals is their overly busy schedules. School, part-time job, sports, friends not to mention self-care such as sleep all add up to more than can be done in a 168-hour week. Then I come along and ask a 16, or 17-year-old to accommodate one hour (two at the most) per week. Crash and burn!
The facts are:
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None of the students I work with plan to be professional athletes, yet everything in their lives seems to get subordinated to the practice and play schedules.
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None of the students I work with is working their part-time job in their anticipated, adult career. Behind sports, work seems to get the next time grab. Even asking a student to notify an employer a week or two in advance of a need for a day free, is met with resistance from most students.
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Success in our common goals (right college, right price, graduate on time with the right degree) can be valued, literally at thousands of dollars of savings, plus a college education with purpose for the future.
Bottom line: Commander Carroll's video is an admission of poor priorities, as well as testimony to the value of his military academy education.
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